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Monday, October 1, 2012

Aku Terima Nikahnya~


31st August 2012, a meaningful date in our life,
There is nothing about ‘you’ or ‘me’ but everything is about ‘we’.
When success can be of one, but celebration is for both.
When problem can be of one, but the solution will be by both.
This is the beauty of this relationship that’s supposed to be maintained by mutual efforts of both.
InsyaAllah
  
Before the Ijab n Qabul , only Allah knows this mixed feelings haunted me.
I was in my rooms, when my becoming hubby & family arrived…
Something comes out from my dear good friends..
“Oh, first time, aku nampak aie hensem umi”
Oh God, behave umi, I’ve become so nervous..ahhh…
That was a terrifying moment for me, Very nerve-wrecking, I’m nervous, I’m shaky.
This is life-changing man..

 Ok, Start.."Panggil umi keluar bilik" dup dap dup dap..
Everybody is concentrate on us,
The nervousness crept in,
I saw my family around me..
My girlfriends formed a line, sitting beside me..
I’ve just ignore the “malu-malu” feelings
For me I need to give a full attention & make a dua during
 Ijab & Qabul.
In front of me, I saw my dear sat with Ayah and Tok Qadi in front of him.
Everything seems to be in place.

Then  tok Qadi start giving Khutbah Nikah, selawat beramai-ramai & practicing the Ijab and Qabul.
I can hear it clearly, when my dear hubby recited the Qabul calmly…
Then one of the imam, which is “Imam 3” alhamdulillah sekali jalan je… xsempat tok qadi ckp sah lagi..
 Ya Allah, I’m Aie’s wife…Subhanallah..berguguran air mate..
Finally, sharp on 5.40pm dengan sekali lafaz sahaja…
I’m officially wife kepada Muhammad Bukhari Shafiee
 The greates gift ever…Tq Allah
You are my man dear!!!

Ayah dah teresak menangis…I can’t control myself…
I finally stop crying when someone shouting on me..
“Umi, dah la tu!!” Oh my dear izni…sempat lg marah Raja Sehari…
Bile kalih je muke..
Cik Dilah, Cik Izni and Cik Alin was smilling and then were sobbing, all teary and emotional bunch.
Bile kalih je muke
I’ll start smiling and even want to laugh, when I saw one of our frens is looking on us…
I memang xbleh tengok muke die, OK!!
So annoying
 Ayet…datang jge..tQ

  
Lafaz ta’liq.
It touched our hearts,
Lafaz ta’liq is the most emotional part of our solemnization ceremony.
He started to read the ta’liq calmly and clearly.
Part yang sangt sebak, “saya mengaku apabila saya tinggalkan isteri saya dia dengan sengaja atau paksaan….”.. suara yang tenang menjadi sebak lagi ..
After ta’liq, hubby datang kat I untuk ajak solat sunat nikah bersama sebelum upacara batal air sembahyang.
On that time, I saw the tears in his eyes.
There were tears in mine.

After a months...
Alhamdulillah..










“May your vows and this marriage be blessed. May it be sweet milk, this marriage, sweet drink and halvah. May this marriage offer fruit and shade like the date palm. May this marriage be full of laughter, your every day a day in paradise. May this marriage be a sign of compassion, a seal of happiness here and hereafter. May this marriage have a fair face and a good name, an omen as welcome as the moon in a clear evening sky....
May spirit enter and mingle in this marriage.”
– Rumi (Kulliyat-i-Shams)



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