LoVe Talks~

Dear, 

wHy I love You??

What this love meant to me?

This is what I felt about our love

Dear,

I could see the kindness flowing in your words which said with so much love and compassion.

In my heart, I knew you always looked at me with love and mercy.

True love is embedded inside my hearts.

Experienced of sweetness to love you for the sake of Allah S.W.T..

InsyaAllah~

Before our marriage,
We have made a lot of dreams..*Feels SomeThiNG liKe ANGAN-ANGAN*

But now we’re heading to achieving our dreams. *Angan-aNgan jadi KenyaTaaN, BOLeh?*

Greatest gift eVER

Love, Husband, Family

A precious gift to me…

Thankful Ya Allah~

WhAT is LoVe Mean??

There are so many meanings of love that people can create.

For me, true love always remains alive in our hearts.

Its light always shines inside us.

It does not come or go according to our MOODS!!.

It always stays and remains inside us.

Love connects one heart to another with a feeling of understanding, faith and happiness.

The bliss of love cannot be compared, it is unique.

Love calls for patience, tolerance and forgiveness.

A quote about LOVE,

The deep meaning of love is not found in the depths of forests, neither in the depths of the oceans and seas.

Rather it is deeply enveloped inside our hearts.

To love is to sacrifice our own self for the comfort of our beloved.

Love you means everything to me.

Hey My love..my cutie Pies..hehe J

*Close your eyes, Imagine that I’m holding your hand and rub it gently~~wehooo~*

Here is my dreams…

Dreams of our loves~
I want to be the one in your hearts..

I want to comfort you like Khadija R.A to Muhammad S.A.W.

The one was always trusted him.

The one was always there for him and loved him very much.

The one was never doubted him and was a great wife to him.

And the special is,

The one was always truthful to her husband and never failed in helping him

And the BEAUTY of their relationship was they UNDERSTOOD EACH OTHER!!.

They took care of one another and helped each other become stronger in faith.

Dear,

You have told me about “Cinta Hakiki”…

About our Dreams, Hope..

The real hope, Yang Hakiki…  

Hope our love will accompany us in Palace of Jannah, InsyaAllah

I’ll try my best to be your good wife ever in our new chapter…

You are my the other half, dear~

“Garden of the Lovers by Imam Ibn Qayyim (Rahimahullah),

 “Love is the divine endowment unto humanity, a serum of the soul's passion and the niche of the heart's innermost light. It is what flows with ease and sets at the scene of a long-winded aspiration, remaining in the deepest streams of life. Like a first breath, it comes with cherished sacredness and does not cease until death overcomes life. And though sometimes heavy on the tongue and rigid to handle with the bare hands, it dominates the subconscious of every creature.”

Aku Terima Nikahnya~

31^st August 2012, a meaningful date in our life,

There is nothing about ‘you’ or ‘me’ but everything is about ‘we’.

When success can be of one, but celebration is for both.

When problem can be of one, but the solution will be by both.

This is the beauty of this relationship that’s supposed to be maintained by mutual efforts of both.

InsyaAllah

  

Before the Ijab n Qabul , only Allah knows this mixed feelings haunted me.

I was in my rooms, when my becoming hubby & family arrived…

Something comes out from my dear good friends..

“Oh, first time, aku nampak aie hensem umi”

Oh God, behave umi, I’ve become so nervous..ahhh…

That was a terrifying moment for me, Very nerve-wrecking, I’m nervous, I’m shaky.

This is life-changing man..

 Ok, Start.."Panggil umi keluar bilik" dup dap dup dap..

Everybody is concentrate on us,

The nervousness crept in,

I saw my family around me..

My girlfriends formed a line, sitting beside me..

I’ve just ignore the “malu-malu” feelings
For me I need to give a full attention & make a dua during

 Ijab & Qabul.

In front of me, I saw my dear sat with Ayah and Tok Qadi in front of him.

Everything seems to be in place.

Then  tok Qadi start giving Khutbah Nikah, selawat beramai-ramai & practicing the Ijab and Qabul.

I can hear it clearly, when my dear hubby recited the Qabul calmly…

Then one of the imam, which is “Imam 3” alhamdulillah sekali jalan je… xsempat tok qadi ckp sah lagi..

 Ya Allah, I’m Aie’s wife…Subhanallah..berguguran air mate..

Finally, sharp on 5.40pm dengan sekali lafaz sahaja…

I’m officially wife kepada Muhammad Bukhari Shafiee

 The greates gift ever…Tq Allah

You are my man dear!!!

Ayah dah teresak menangis…I can’t control myself…

I finally stop crying when someone shouting on me..

“Umi, dah la tu!!” Oh my dear izni…sempat lg marah Raja Sehari…
Bile kalih je muke..

Cik Dilah, Cik Izni and Cik Alin was smilling and then were sobbing, all teary and emotional bunch.
Bile kalih je muke

I’ll start smiling and even want to laugh, when I saw one of our frens is looking on us…

I memang xbleh tengok muke die, OK!!
So annoying

 Ayet…datang jge..tQ

  

Lafaz ta’liq.

It touched our hearts,

Lafaz ta’liq is the most emotional part of our solemnization ceremony.

He started to read the ta’liq calmly and clearly.

Part yang sangt sebak, “saya mengaku apabila saya tinggalkan isteri saya dia dengan sengaja atau paksaan….”.. suara yang tenang menjadi sebak lagi ..

After ta’liq, hubby datang kat I untuk ajak solat sunat nikah bersama sebelum upacara batal air sembahyang.

On that time, I saw the tears in his eyes.

There were tears in mine.

After a months...

Alhamdulillah..

“May your vows and this marriage be blessed. May it be sweet milk, this marriage, sweet drink and halvah. May this marriage offer fruit and shade like the date palm. May this marriage be full of laughter, your every day a day in paradise. May this marriage be a sign of compassion, a seal of happiness here and hereafter. May this marriage have a fair face and a good name, an omen as welcome as the moon in a clear evening sky....

May spirit enter and mingle in this marriage.”

– Rumi (Kulliyat-i-Shams)

Tq Allah~

Walaupun banyak liku-liku bersama...

Akhirnya ia temukan kami bersama...

Halalkan cinta kami...

Semoga dengan restuMu..bersama kami dlm syuga JannahMu Ya Allah~

Cinta terpisah ruang waktu
Tetap cinta bersatu dalam hatiku
Walau raga kita tak mungkin bersama
Ku yakini hati kan tetap setia

Ku percaya kemana pun kau berjalan
Suara cinta menuntunmu kepadaku
Kerna bila cinta sudah bersemadi
Takkan terpisah hati

Korus:
Demi cinta dalam hatimu
Ku yakin engkau untukku
Meski jejak pisahkan kita
Cinta kan bawa kembali padamu

Hoo uuu..

Aku ada kerna kau ada
Dan cinta hatiku hanyalah untukmu

Jalanku tertuju padamu
Kemana pun kan pasti kembali

[Ulang Korus]

Demi cinta dalam hatimu
Biarkan aku merasuk
Bersatu dalam hatimu
Hanya dirimu dan aku

Demi cinta dalam hatimu
Biarkan aku merasuk (merasuk dalam hati)
Cinta..

Source: http://lagubestbest.blogspot.com/2012/08/muara-hati-hafiz-siti-nurhaliza-lirik-mtv.html#ixzz27e3kbWOR

Keep your head up and smile :)

Love to share this article...

Belum ade kesempatan untuk update / sharing my beautiful life after marriage..

Semoga Allah kurniakan keberkatan nye kepada kite semua..

Barakallah..

Keep your head up, smile, and look to the future. You have much yet to do in this life. Ask Allah for guidance, then do what your heart tells you, speak the words that you've always held back, and be yourself.
Don't let the past freeze you in place, and don't punish yourself for things you cannot change. 

Everything you've experienced: the happy times, loneliness, laughter and tears, all have meaning, and have all gone into making you who you are. If you have any wisdom or insight, it is probably a result of hardship you've experienced in the past.

“The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These people have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen.” — Elisabeth Kubler-Ross

Everything that you do today has meaning. The caress you give a child, the help you give a stranger, the quiet charity, all matter and make a difference, even when you don't see it. It's all worth it. Your love matters, your work matters, your life matters.

Keep your head up, and forge forward fee-sabeel-illah. Accept yourself and be at peace. Look ahead and smile. Stand up straight, and don't bow your head except in prayer. Keep praying, learning, thinking, following your dreams, and loving the people in your life. I love you all for the sake of Allah.

Allah swt has promised when He said:

""Verily, with hardship there is relief" [Qur'an 94:6]..you never know..

"Perhaps Allah may bring victory or a decision according to His Will." [Qur'an 5:52]

JazakAllahu Khair..

Source from: islamic inspiration quotes.

I was speechless when it came without words

I shouldnt have done that

I should have pretended not to know

Like I didnt see it

Like I couldnt see it

I shouldnt have looked at you in the first place

I should have run away

I should have pretended I wasn't listening

Like I couldn't see it

Like I couldnt't hear it

I shouldn't have heard your love in the first place

Without words

You made me know what love is

Without wods

You gave me your Love

made me fill myself with your every breath

then you ran away

Without words

Love leaves me

Without wods

Love abondons me

Wondering what to say next

My Lips was suprised

because it came without words

Why does it hurt so much?

Why does it hurt continuously?

except for the fact that I can't see you anymore

and that you're not here anymore

Otherwise,

It'll be just the same like before

Without words

tears starts falling down

Without words

My heart is broken

Without words

I waited for love

Without words

Love hurts me

I've become transparent

I've became a fool

and I cry just looking at the sky

Without words

Separation finds me

Without words

the end comes to me

I think my heart is startled

Because it came without words

Without words it came

Without words its leaving

Like a fever I've had

Maybe all I have to do is hurt for a while

Because the only thing that remains are scars

I have to recover myself...
I have to be ready
for the new beginning in my life...
And I believe there is HIKMAH behind everything
The Hikmah will be in different forms for different people
In whatever form it may be, HIKMAH will present itself in time, insya Allah.

Semoga Allah memberkati, melimpahkan berkat dan menghimpunkan kedua kami di dalam kebaikkan.
Di bulan syawal yang mulia, maaf dipinta atas segala kekhilafan diri ini..
InsyaAllah, semoga Allah permudahkan hati untuk meredhakannya...InsyaAllah..

My duas are with you my sister

Everyone at some point faces difficulties in their live.

And for my beloved sister,

I feel a little guilty when I see you're having a problems and I'm still feeling fine.

My heart goes out to you but I know that I will probably get to the point where I'm on the downhill slide.

If I were in your shoes, I also doing the same like you.

Perfecting my obligatory and invest in my voluntary good deeds to Allah.

May Allah bring the ease to us... InsyaAllah...

And For Myself,

I need to console myself

Because Allah knows better than we do

If He deprives us of something,there is Divine Wisdom behind it.
If He gives us something, it may be a blessing or perhaps a test.

Ya Rabb,
I implore you equip me with the faith and patience to deal with it.
I implore you to make me grateful to You for all the blessings You have given me and for all difficulties You have saved me from.
I implore You to forgive me for my wrong deeds that may have resulted in my current trial..
And I implore You to make me into the Muslim that you will be pleased with on the Day of Judgement.

Ya Allah,
I hope for your mercy, 
I hope Allah guides me, 
Makes me stronger and wiser when this is all over..

Thank you Allah for your blessing in my life.
Please give me the strength and patience to face daily challenges with abundant love rather than anger and frustration.
Ameen..

Just a bad writer,
Umie

Seeking Blessing : Wish me luck!

Dear readers,
Wish me luck on this tuesday. I get the 'oppurtunity' again...but i'm afraid what it might question me. I've be feeling good on my 1st stages but what it would be on the next??

I've been wondering if I would do the best again like before...huhu....
I wonder if i would get the very tough technical question and i couldn't answer it..OMG..
I've spent my time to recap on the technical in the last two days.
I hope the experience would help me on this. They told me this is a tough stages.
I need to give high confidence level in it.
This is what my fiance told me, Alhamdulillah, he always be on my side.
My forever supporter ever, Insyaallah...

Today is my challenges,
Its beyond my comprehension to those have been praying for me.
My family, my future hubby, friends and even people I barely know.
I know this had helped tremendously.
If you are one of those, please keep the prayers coming.

Everyday is a blessing.
Ya Allah, You are the greatest one and i'm seeking for your blessing.
I bow in sajda to you Ya Allah, please guide me to what is the best for me..

Thanks for listening to my gobbly gook, readers.
Best wishes to all who struggling for tomorrow..

Bad writers,

Shift Gears~

A long journey to go...and the past was giving a lesson to myself.

Shifts Gears..
Sometimes i felt offended, laying down to earth..
I keep motivating myself, then find out what can make my mind shift gears.
I'm deciding to have a book for reading to fulfill my time...
When I'm reading a book, my minds shift gears.
Where I might have a had a stressful day, a book can help distract me.
Reading an awesome book is perfect right before bed time.
Though sometimes it's hard to put the book down if it's really good..
Then, end up i was late in the morning...haha..

Not only by the book...
If i have time for internet surfing, i will keep myself busy by creating and improving myself..
I've found that no matter what I read, the act of reading every day has helped me in nearly in every aspect of my life.

Can a knowledgeable contributing to maturity?


Knowledgeable Vs Maturity 


Knowledgeable doesn't mean your are matured enough.
For me, everyone can give a different spectrum of ideas..
But we need to wisely think what suite the best for us..

To be continue~

Just the ideas,

Bad Writer

Muhasabah Diri Ya Ramadhan~

Seorang nelayan yang soleh, Abu Jaafar Mansur, telah berjaya menangkap seekor ikan tetapi seorang pengawal kerajaan telah merampas ikan itu dari tangannya dan memukulinya. Maka berkatalah Abu Jaafar, "Ya Tuhanku, Engkau menciptakan aku dalam keadaan lemah dan Engkau mencipta dia dalam keadaan gagah perkasa, sehingga dia dapat menganiaya aku. Kuasakanlah dia pada satu makhluk dan jadikanlah dia sebagai pelajaran bagi semua kaum muslimin."

Setelah pengawal kerajaan itu tiba di rumahnya, dia mengoreng ikan itu. Ketika dia meletakkan ikan itu di atas hidangan, duri ikan itu tiba-tiba menyengatnya dengan izin Allah SWT tangan yang tertusuk duri ikan itu bertambah parah dan ulat memakan tangannya. Dia tidak tahan lagi dan terpaksa tanga itu harus dipotong tetapi ulat itu malah menjalar ke lengannya dan terpaksa dipotongnya pula. Kemudian dia tidur dan bermimpi seseorang mengatakannya kepadanya, "Kembalikan hak itu kepada pemiliknya, agar engkau selamat dari penyakit ini."

Setelah dia terbangun, barulah dia menyedari mengenai ikan yang dirampas dari Abu Jaafar. Maka datanglah dia menjumpai Abu Jaafar dan memberinya sepuluh dirham dan meminta halal kepadanya. Ketika Abu Jaafar menghalalkannya, maka berjatuhanlah ulat itu dari tangannya yang terluka dan kembalilah tangan itu sembuh seprti sediakala dengan kekuasaan dan izin Allah Taala.

Banyak pengajaran yang kita peroleh daripada kisah di atas, di antaranya ialah jangan merasa diri kita besar atau bangga diri serta boleh mengambil kesempatan ke atas diri orang yang lemah. Kebanyakan orang zaman sekarang suka mengambil kesempatan di atas kelemahan orang lain disebabkan akan kuasa yang mereka miliki. Selain itu janganlah kita menzalimi orang yang lemah kerana perbuatan itu ibarat menzalimi diri kita sendiri. Hal ini kerana setiap perbuatan yang zalim itu mendatangkan dosa....

Sabda Nabi S.A.W

“Barangsiapa merampas hak seorang muslim dengan sumpahnya, maka Allah mewajibkan dia masuk neraka dan mengharamkan baginya surga,” maka salah seorang bertanya,”Meskipun sedikit, wahai Rasulullah?” Rasulullah menjawab,”Ya, meskipun hanya setangkai kayu sugi (siwak).”[HR Muslim]



Source From :Halaqah.net

Inspire of Generation- Olympic Games Medal Count

Source from Official London 2012 Website

Here is the Medal Counts. 

Republic China is on the TOP!! 

Common Malaysia gimmesome!!

We do support you..yeah!

Rahsia Cinta Mereka

Kisah Cinta Ali yang tabah dan tak putus berusaha.....

Kawan-kawan mungkin akan rase malas nk bace..

sbb panjang sgt ye..

Takpe pelan-pelan....best tau..dapat jadikan iktibar~

Ali Bin Abu Talib sangat menyanyangi Fatimah binti Muhammad. Dari kecil lagi rasa sayang itu sudah ada. Ali mengagumi ketabahan yang setia di sisi ayahnya walaupun seluruh musyrikin Mekah menentang dan menghina. Fatimah gadis lembut dan tegas. Beliau gadis santun dan bersemangat waja. Tubuhnya kecil tetapi berjiwa kuat. Beliau gadis impian ramai pemuda. Wajahnya yang bersih dan mulus semakin menambahkan rasa sayang dalam hati Ali.

Ya hatinya kecewa apabila mendengar Abu Bakar melamar Fatimah. Wajahnya tertunduk hampa dan semakin tunduk apabila membandingkan dirinya dengan Abu Bakar. Abu Bakar adalah sahabat Rasulullah yang paling dekat dan paling dipercayai. Beliau sanggup menahan bisa ular yang mematuknya semata-mata tidak mahu Rasulullah yang sedang tidur di atas ribanya terjaga. Tidak pernah sekalipun beliau menafikan kata-kata Rasulullah. Malah beliau berjaya menyentuh banyak hati bangsawan dan orang-orang penting Mekah terhadap Islam melalui dakwahnya.


"Sedangkan dirinya?" Ali tertunduk lagi. Beliau pasrah walaupun benar-benar menyayangi Fatimah. Apakah rasa sayang itu cinta? Ya, itulah cinta. Dan kerana cintanya, beliau rela melihat kebahagiaan Fatimah di sisi Abu Bakar.

Beberapa hari kemudian, beliau kehairanan. Khabar terbaru yang diterima, lamaran Abu Bakar ditolak Rasulullah. Mengapa? Bukankah Abu Bakar calon paling layak untuk Fatimah? Walaupun begitu, hatinya kelegaan. Mungkinkah beliau masih berpeluang terhadap Fatimah?


Kelegaanya tidak lama. Saingan yang lebih hebat menghulur lamaran kepada Fatimah. Ya, Umar Al-Khattab, lelaki pemisah kebenaran dan kepalsuan juga berniat menjadi menantu Rasulullah. Ya Allah....apakah ini akhir takdirnya?? Bagaimana beliau dapat menafikan kehebatan Umar? Malaikat sendiri tunduk hormat kepadanya malah syaitan pun lari jika berhadapan dengannya. Keislamannya membuatkan Islam semakin teguh dan para musyrikin Mekah tidak berani lagi sewenang-wenangnya mengangkat muka menghina agama Allah swt itu. 


Untuk kali kedua, Ali tertunduk lagi. Benarlah cinta itu adalah pengorbanan. Dan sekali lagi, DIA sanggup berkorban melepaskan Fatimah ke tangan Umar jika itu dapat menjamin kebahagiaan Fatimah.


Tetapi, beliau kehairanan sekali lagi. Rasulullah masih menolak pinangan Umar itu. Umar? Mengapa Rasulullah menolak Umar? Lelaki bagaimana lagi Rasulullah mahukan sebagai suami puteri kesayangannya itu? Bukan Abu Bakar, bukan Umar. Lalu, siapa?

Kali ini, Ali mahu mencuba nasib. Mana tahu Rasulullah akan menerimanya. Bukankah beliau antara yang paling rapat dengan baginda? Teman-temannya membantu menaikkan semangatnya. Tetapi beliau hanya pemuda miskin yang langsung tidak mempunyai harta. Adakah Rasulullah akan memandang ketulusan hatinya untuk Fatimah melebihi kemiskinannya?


Walau apapun, Ali harus mencuba. Lalu beliau memberanikan diri menemui Rasullulah. Dengan hormat dan penuh hati-hati beliau menyampaikan niatnya untuk menikahi Fatimah. Terbayang di fikirannya, harta yang dimilikinya hanya satu set baju besi manakala di rumahnya hanya ada tepung sebagai makanannya.


Ali berdebar-debar menanti jawapan Rasulullah. Jika baginda menolak, beliau akan memahaminya. Jika baginda menerima sungguh beliau lelaki paling beruntung di muka bumi tuhan ini.


"Ahlan wa sahlan, wahai Ali, " kata Rasulullah sambil tersenyum. Ali terpinga-pinga. Apakah maksudnya? Adakah lamarannya ditolak atau diterima?


"Engkau diterima,wahai Ali. Engkau diterima!" Begitu gembira teman-temannya mendengar jawapan Rasulullah yang dikhabarkan oleh Ali itu.


Ali tidak percaya. Lamarannya diterima? Subhanallah.....Allahuakbar..sesungguhnya Engkau maha pemberi nikmat dan Engkau memberikannya kepada sesiapa yang Engkau kehendaki.


Pernikahan mereka berlangsung dalam majlis yang cukup sederhana. Namun itu sudah cukup bagi memulakan kisah cinta mereka yang penuh dengan bunga-bunga iman dan taqwa. Hati Ali dan Fatimah akhirnya bersatu di bawah naungan redha Allah dan RasulNya. Ali bahgia dalam cintanya. Bahkan tambah bahagia apabila Fatimah mengakui, beliau sendiri sebenarnya sangat mengagumi Ali dan jatuh cinta pada pemuda itu sejak dulu.


Sudah jelas, cinta itu perlu diusahakan. Bukan sekadar berdiam diri dan merelakan kehilangannya. Tetapi cinta itu memerlukan pengorbanan. Dan hanya mereka yang berani seperti Ali sahaja yang layak memiliki cinta gadis seperti Fatimah..

HOPE YOU LIKE IT YA!! 

~TAMAT~

Ibu Ayah....My Everything~

Bersyukur dilahirkan dalam keadaan sederhana,

Masih ade ruang tuk akak penuhi untuk ibu...

Di saat hati berbolak balik...ibula org pertama doakan kebaikan untuk anaknyer..

Di saat berada di atas, ibu bekalkan nasihat...jgnlupe mengadap die...saat akak leka, ibu xputus doa untuk anaknyer

Disaat dugaan menyapa diri...ibula org pertama menenangkannya...Takpe ibu kate Allah ade..doa kat die..

Ayah....

saat akak susah..ayah dtg beri pertolongan..

saat akak bersedih..ayah dtg beri pelukan..

saat akak gembira...ayah dtg melemparkn tawa..

saat akak hilang arah tujuan..ayah kate..kite kena terima Qada dan Qadar Allah ye kak..

 'Subhanallahu walhamdulillahi wala ilaha illallahu wallahu akbar' 

Kisah Teladan ; Hikmah berbakti kepada ibu bapa

                        Selain seorang nabi, Sulaiman a.s. juga seorang raja terkenal. Atas izin Allah s.w.t. ia berhasil menundukkan Ratu Balqis. Dia dikenal sebagai manusia boleh berdialog dengan segala binatang. Dikisahkan, Nabi Sulaiman sedang berkelana antara langit dan bumi hingga tiba di satu samudera yang bergelombang besar. Untuk mencegah gelombang, ia cukup memerintahkan angin agar tenang, dan tenang pula samudera itu. Kemudian Nabi Sulaiman memerintahkan jin Ifrit menyelam ke samudera itu sampai ke dasarnya. Di sana jin Ifrit melihat sebuah kubah dari permata putih yang tanpa lubang, kubah itu diangkatnya ke atas samudera dan ditunjukkannya kepada Nabi Sulaiman.

                        Melihat kubah tanpa lubang penuh permata dari dasar laut itu Nabi Sulaiman menjadi terlalu hairan, "Kubah apakah gerangan ini?" fikirnya. Dengan minta pertolongan Allah s.w.t., Nabi Sulaiman membuka tutup kubah. Betapa terkejutnya dia begitu melihat seorang pemuda tinggal di dalamnya. "Sipakah engkau ini? Kelompok jin atau manusia?" tanya Nabi Sulaiman kehairanan. "Aku adalah manusia", jawab pemuda itu perlahan. "Bagaimana engkau boleh memperolehi karomah semacam ini?" tanya Nabi Sulaiman lagi. Kemudian pemuda itu menceritakan riwayatnya sampai kemudian memperolehi karomah dari Allah s.w.t. boleh tinggal di dalam kubah dan berada di dasar lautan.

                        Diceritakan, ibunya dulu sudah tua dan tidak berdaya sehingga dialah yang memapah dan menggendongnya ke mana jua dia pergi. Si anak selalu berbakti kepada orang tuanya, dan ibunya selalu mendoakan anaknya. Salah satu doanya itu, ibunya selalu mendoakan anaknya diberi rezeki dan perasaan puas diri. Semoga anaknya ditempatkan di suatu tempat yang tidak di dunia dan tidak pula di langit. "Setelah ibuku wafat aku berkeliling di atas pantai. Dalam perjalanan aku melihat sebuah kibah terbuat dari permata. Aku mendekatinya dan terbukalah pintu kubah itu sehingga aku masuk ke dalamnya" Tutur pemuda itu kepada Nabi Sulaiman.

                        Nabi Sulaiman yang dikenali boleh berjalan di antara bumi dan langit itu menjadi kagum terhadap pemuda itu.
"Bagaimana engkau boleh hidup di dalam kubah di dasar lautan itu?" tanya Nabi Sulaiman ingin mengetahui lebih lanjut.
"Di dalam kubah itu sendiri, aku tidak tahu di mana berada. Di langitkah atau di udara, tetapi Allah s.w.t. tetap memberi rezeki kepadaku ketika aku tinggal di dalam kubah." "Bagaimana Allah s.w.t. memberi makan kepadamu?" "Jika aku merasa lapar, Allah s.w.t. menciptakan pohon di dalam kubah, dan buahnya yang aku makan. Jika aku merasa haus maka keluarlah air yang teramat bersih, lebih putih daripada susu dan lebih manis daripada madu."

                        "Bagaimana engkau mengetahui perbedaan siang dan malam?" tanya Nabi Sulaiman a.s yang merasa semakin hairan. "Bila telah terbit fajar, maka kubah itu menjadi putih, dari situ aku mengetahui kalau hari itu sudah siang. Bila matahari terbenam kubah akan menjadi gelap dan aku mengetahui hari sudah malam." Tuturnya. Selesai menceritakan kisahnya, pemuda itu lalu berdoa kepada Allah s.w.t., maka pintu kubah itu tertutup kembali, dan pemuda itu tetap tinggal di dalamnya. Itulah keromah bagi seorang pemuda yang berbakti kepada kedua orang tuanya.

The Telegraph~

From a casual daters searching for soulmate to married couples who think they've got nothing to learn, and the books jumps to straighforward, honest insight and advice has transformed the relationships of millions, unlocking the secret of true mutual understanding and a lifetime of love...

Mens are from Mars, Womens are from Venus

Such a good books for me, as a relationship counsellor...Yes, he is the best counsellor
If we noticed or not, in our journey of life we have moving forward in a same date and time but the different is our path. People has their opinions, perception based on their spectrum and experienced of life. Identify, recognize and explore our problems, we have discovered new ways to improve all our relationships.


I love to write in my blog every bytes of word in this books but it quite difficult. With some overview from this book can give me something to write in my blogs rather than jadi blog yang dah "bersawang"... :)
Relationships do not have to be such a struggle.
Only we do not understand one another is there tension, resentment or conflict. Imagine than men are from mars and women are from Venus...

This books is presenting something that can makes our self clear Men and Women has a different..
When their hearts start to be apart, and in the beginning everything was wonderful and beautiful...Because of the beautiful feelings, they decided to be together. On that time, both of them forgot that they were different planet and were supposed to be different. In one find day, everything they had learned about their differences was erased from their memory. And since that day men and women have been in conflict..
The best solutions is

REMEMBERING OUR DIFFERENCES

Without the awareness that we are supposed to be different, men and women are at odds with each other. We usually  become angry and frustrated with the opposite sex because we have forgotten the important truth.

We expect the opposite sex to be more like ourself.

We desire them to "buat ape yang kite nak", "rase ape yang kite rase"

We mistakenly assume that if our partners loves us they will react and behave in certain ways- the ways we react and behave when we love someone.

Men mistakenly expect women to think, communicate, and react they way men do; women mistakenly expect men to feel, communicate, and respond they way women do. We have forgotten that men and women supposed to be different. As a result our relationships are filled with unnecessary friction and conflict.

And this books said, we need to clearly recognizing and respecting these differences dramatically reduce confusion when dealing with the opposite sex. When you remember men and women came from a different planet, and everything can be explained.

When men and women are able to respect and accept their differences

 then love has a chance to blossom.

About 3.00am now, I'm very sleepy...all my good friends...don't forget to grab  fadhilat sahur..

May Allah Bless Us on what the good thing we are doing..

Dunia pinjaman sementara...We learned from our mistakes...

Don't let a karma turned back to us...just being good..Insya-Allah everything done wells..