The Telegraph~

From a casual daters searching for soulmate to married couples who think they've got nothing to learn, and the books jumps to straighforward, honest insight and advice has transformed the relationships of millions, unlocking the secret of true mutual understanding and a lifetime of love...

Mens are from Mars, Womens are from Venus

Such a good books for me, as a relationship counsellor...Yes, he is the best counsellor
If we noticed or not, in our journey of life we have moving forward in a same date and time but the different is our path. People has their opinions, perception based on their spectrum and experienced of life. Identify, recognize and explore our problems, we have discovered new ways to improve all our relationships.


I love to write in my blog every bytes of word in this books but it quite difficult. With some overview from this book can give me something to write in my blogs rather than jadi blog yang dah "bersawang"... :)
Relationships do not have to be such a struggle.
Only we do not understand one another is there tension, resentment or conflict. Imagine than men are from mars and women are from Venus...

This books is presenting something that can makes our self clear Men and Women has a different..
When their hearts start to be apart, and in the beginning everything was wonderful and beautiful...Because of the beautiful feelings, they decided to be together. On that time, both of them forgot that they were different planet and were supposed to be different. In one find day, everything they had learned about their differences was erased from their memory. And since that day men and women have been in conflict..
The best solutions is

REMEMBERING OUR DIFFERENCES

Without the awareness that we are supposed to be different, men and women are at odds with each other. We usually  become angry and frustrated with the opposite sex because we have forgotten the important truth.

We expect the opposite sex to be more like ourself.

We desire them to "buat ape yang kite nak", "rase ape yang kite rase"

We mistakenly assume that if our partners loves us they will react and behave in certain ways- the ways we react and behave when we love someone.

Men mistakenly expect women to think, communicate, and react they way men do; women mistakenly expect men to feel, communicate, and respond they way women do. We have forgotten that men and women supposed to be different. As a result our relationships are filled with unnecessary friction and conflict.

And this books said, we need to clearly recognizing and respecting these differences dramatically reduce confusion when dealing with the opposite sex. When you remember men and women came from a different planet, and everything can be explained.

When men and women are able to respect and accept their differences

 then love has a chance to blossom.

About 3.00am now, I'm very sleepy...all my good friends...don't forget to grab  fadhilat sahur..

May Allah Bless Us on what the good thing we are doing..

Dunia pinjaman sementara...We learned from our mistakes...

Don't let a karma turned back to us...just being good..Insya-Allah everything done wells..